The Fruits of Perseverance

It has been a while since I last blogged and I’m writing to share the realization of a long cherished dream. My struggle to find full-time employment in my field is something that shows up in my blogs from time to time. Regular readers are familiar with my transition from unemployed to underemployed to doing odd jobs that weren’t in my field. I have extolled the virtues of volunteering time and again and I still volunteer for an NGO even after getting hired as a contractor.

Although I loved working in schools, a part of me wanted to get back to writing and editing. My blog opened the door to many writing opportunities and several websites have  published my work. The next step was getting paid for the writing. I started writing for content mills and although they paid a pittance, it built up my confidence and honed my skills as a writer.

When I was in India, a referral from a old friend/colleague landed me a contract as a content writer. This was my first job as a writer in the corporate world. While I enjoyed the perks of working from home, it became apparent that after a long break one could benefit from the learning that occurs in an office environment. This role was quite different from writing for content mills and showed me where I could improve as a writer. Before I knew it 4 months were up and I was back to being unemployed.

Long bouts of unemployment coupled with our unsuccessful attempt to settle down in India made one thing quite clear to me. With kids whose future lay in our hands, I couldn’t put my career on the back burner anymore. You never know when life will throw you a curve ball and one has to be prepared. If I had been established in my career, maybe the trip to India may not have been so stressful. Even though my husband was not earning I could have run the household.

I came back to the U.S. with one burning desire – to find a full-time job that could support me and my family. While looking for jobs I continued to gain experience as a writer/editor by freelancing and volunteering. Two interviews later I got a call that changed my life. I interviewed for a job that seemed a right fit for me and got hired as a contractor to do web content editing. There was the promise of being hired full-time if I performed well. Five months into the job and I got hired full-time. Maybe it’s not a big feat for all of you reading this. But for me it has been 15 years since I had a full-time job (other than being a full-time mom).

For 11 years I couldn’t work in the U.S. because it took me that long to get my green card. Then another 4 years to find my way back to writing and editing. Along the way I have had many well-meaning relatives and friends advise me to take up an entirely different career path. Like say pharmacology or QA testing or even running a daycare.  But none of that appealed to me. Somehow I circled back to writing.

As I write this , others in my circle have had breakthroughs in other areas of their lives. Some have been blessed with babies after several years of heartache and pain. Others who have struggled with finances now have nest eggs that give them financial security and freedom. It took a long time for them and for me to realize our dreams but we persevered, kept the faith and took one step at a time in the direction of our dreams.

I cannot say I have reached my destination because ahead of me are more lessons, adventures and truths to explore. For those of you unsure of getting what you want or following your dream, I stand testimony to the fact that it can be done no matter how long or how hard you have tried or how unsuccessful you have been so far. So go for it!  You are supported by the universe and my good wishes are with you.

 

7 thoughts on “The Fruits of Perseverance

  1. Dums, Hats off for articulating all my thoughts in your blog. After giving up on a promising career that allowed me to have a sneak preview of the entire Europe, to say I was regretting was an understatement. The day my angel arrived and I had taken my bundle of joy in my hands, I realised that my dreams, ambitions lay in here in my hands and started chasing my dreams of trying to make something out of my skills whilst trying to balance my time between my precious little angel, home and the tiny spark that had turned into a very small venture. Ten years into this with loads of struggle, facing challenges everyday, forcing myself to make some life changing decisions, unable to recognise my own face at times, I feel elated and contented with my journey and enjoy the fruits of my hardwork when I see my adorable children and the learn about the numerous nameless faces that had in the slightest way impacted by my endeavours. I am still trying to find my baby steps in the big bad competitive world out there, but in my own way, happy to have taken them 🙂 May the almighty bless us in all our walks of life.

    1. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your struggles Hema. You are one dynamic and hardworking person and I’m amazed at the way you juggle so many different roles and responsibilities with ease. Not to mention the number of young lives you touch and inspire. Good luck with all your ventures and I’m confident success will smile on you, as always. It cannot be any other way!

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